Nature walk with @kandi2429 👯
When Calling > Text.
I got fired from my POS job yesterday via text message. It stated I was late a day and because I had to request off for MAJOR reason (I will not put it out there in internet land) but were legit and with a written time excuse… I was fired. No hurt feelings. I hated the job. I wasn’t allowed to work alone after months of being there and I was being underpaid that I should have been. My opinion, you want me to go above and beyond and work like a slave you better be willing to pay me what I’m worth or I’m half assing everything. I was going to put in my two weeks yesterday so she did the dirty work for me. Unemployment anyone haha.
Back to subject. Who fires anyone via text message! I laughed so damn hard I cried. Fuck it tho, I kinda was like SWEET! I text her back like- ok, NO PROBLEM :).
I should have sent a ;) to confuse her. Or, haha, I should have played it off like it was the wrong number and be like Penelope, is this you or call back using a bad voice and pranked her. That would have been awesome. Don’t text your reasons for firing me, call me. Your a business owner, come on. My 3 year old knows better lol. Shit, even my Pom-a-poo knows better. So ignorant it’s funny. But, what can you expect from someone with missing teeth, horrible makeup on everyday and sits around and watches people get drunk everyday.
I’d like to think that the only I enemy I have is time. It moves too fast or too slow. I wish I can pause some things in my life to be selfish and keep forever. To go back and relive moments of my past. But, fast forward to the next stages of life. Time can be cruel, but kind. Happy, yet sad. With everyday that passes we get a day older. As we’re young, we don’t realize how much we take our precious time for granted. We can never get back yesterday. Eventually our days here will be done. But, memories, our memories, will last a lifetime if not more. Cherish everyday. Love kindly. Make the most of it. Help others. Give more than you take. Smile often. That is my wish and that is my prayer.
It takes a strong person to stand up for the underdog. Especially when you truly don’t know them, just what you see on social media and prior encounters. But luckily they do exists. Sad to say it’s a comparison to seeing a mythical creature or a ghost… You truly don’t believe until you see it for yourself. I think highly of these people. Modern day hero to stand up for someone when other people are bringing them down. They are as rare as winning the lottery. I’m glad to have heard that somone that I don’t even speak to but probably once a year had the heart to put another person in check, tell them that they are wrong about me and they shouldn’t make assumptions. That is heroic if you ask me. Plus, to their own close friend.
I’d like to say thank you, even tho, thank you is not enough. It takes a strong mind and a beautiful heart to stand up to someone. Truly, thank you.
I swear to The Lord above, people hate to see me smile. But, that’s what makes me so confident and I’ll continue being that way.
— Yes and I’ll quote my damn self lol
Inappropriate and non-professional.
Today I get a call from the cook at my new job. He’s super cool, even tho he hits on me and he’s twice my age 😑 but, whatever. He’s nice and the only one that seems to be alright. Anyway, he told me that on Saturday after I worked the owner said, “I went from a hero to a zero” because I didn’t clean a table. It wasn’t my table and I’m not a waitress… I’m a bartender. The cook cleared my name and basically said, HEY, she helped us out. She wasn’t tried to waitress but to bartend, and that wasn’t her table. It was someone else’s.
What I’m saying is, is that grounds to quit? Hero to a zero? I found that insulting beyond control. I won’t work at another place that feel as if I owe them to work there. I understand that small businesses are peoples livelihoods and want things done their way, but be respectful. I found that statement to be very inappropriate and sooooo insulting, if I didn’t do it or did. I don’t have shit to prove to anyone and I’ll be damned if I get treated like a bitch, again.
When the bitch gets called out!
Omg, made my day. I get a call from a friend asking what my previous managers number is, I send it to her and asked why it was needed. No matter, I’d give it to her anyway. The same manager that tried to accuse me of stealing wrote a ton of bad checks to her bar. Hummmmm… SHE GOT CALLED OUT! Lmfao, swear, karma I love you!
Ignorance pt. 2
So, where was I? Oh, my former “boss”. Upon leaving the place I felt used. Like, the only time she was kind to me was because she didn’t have her friends with her sitting at the bar. And of course, when she did she used me to make it sound like she had a puppet with her the puppeteer. Slamming her shot glass on the bar is THE biggest disrespect as a bartender. If I had a dollar ever time she did it in front of costumers is wouldn’t have to work for a while, which, gave them room to disrespect me also…. and they did. When I told the owner how they treated me or said to me she would say that it was a lie. Being that she was her SB, and the pussy control the world status, who’d he believe? Fucked up ain’t it.
Anyway, people have seen me and told me that they have no reason to ever go back and if I bartend local, they better know when I do lol. That’s an awesome feeling to know that the people who agreed I was treated poorly by her and even tho it’s not at the same place they’d still make the trip to come see me.
Latest rumor, I was fired and she’s talking hell of shit as to the people that I’m employed with now. Fuck that bitch hahaha pathetic.
Little bitch don’t know how funny she is :).
So I quit my job a few weeks ago and for many reasons. For one really good reason, I damn near almost cried leaving for work most days. I hated it that much and it was mostly my manager the thief, the liar and the user-manipulator. It’s sad, the owner I thought of like a father has helped me get on my feet as soon as I started working there. I thought my manager was that good hearted also, but no, she wasn’t. I honestly think she believes her own lies or the pills and coke finally got the best of what’s left of her mind.
A week prior to me walking off the job I was talking with my husband about how I hated it there. If I could get out of it, I would. For months I’d cry before leaving for work. I’d get half way there and get myself together because I work face to face with costumers. I truly found out something about myself and that is I have an amazing poker face. You’ll never know how I’m truly feeling. I could be crying outside my job in my car and walk in there like the world is bliss and I have the beat life ever. I honestly just tried to make the best of it.
I was the only non-relative who worked there. The manager hired all her sons to work there. So no matter how hard I worked or how good I’ve done I’d never get any credit for it. A costumer treated me poorly- who cares. A costumer looked at her son wrong and OMG, THEY ARE NEVER ALLOWED BACK! She would get drunk at the bar all night long. Play on her phone lol which one of her many complaints was I was on mine, and yeah I was lol but she was also.
To be continued…
If I ever have a little girl 💟
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Thank you for making me smile! ☺️ @j_cast85